Tatyana Rubtsova
The first days there was a lot of fuss and brain-frying because of inattention and the teams getting used to each other, but then we got a strict reprimand from Igor [Graf] and right away everyone abruptly got used to the rules and to each other. All the nonsense stopped getting in the way, everything somehow settled by itself and the work on the best version of ourselves got going! Already after the first week:
- I found the answer to the question of why for the last 3 years I regularly felt a lack of strength and motivation but couldn’t do anything about it - I sorted out my own hierarchy of values - I discovered my hidden desires - I learned to get up regularly at 6.00-6.30 and wake up alert and energetic, even if I went to bed very late - the new keystone habit I chose for the week made me reconsider my attitude to myself and to everything that happens to me, and get rid of the position “that’s how it’s supposed to be.” No, it isn’t, thanks to whoever is involved in this event - I gained experience of communicating by video call with strangers, oh my goodness, me, a self-conscious introvert! - I realized on what principle my trust in other people works and how to use it to shape my environment
Very cool! I’m already hooked on your broadcasts and webinars) Now I feel less of an emotional effect, rather exactly as much as is needed to keep a spark in my eyes and help me move on, not an instant blaze and ashes in my soul 2 days later. Yesterday the part about the importance of processes, of being, and the secondary nature of goals and “having” really landed. Maybe it sounds silly, but on a subconscious level it always felt the other way round, and I couldn’t even imagine it could be otherwise. I also felt more deeply the part about experience being mandatory; it was a discovery that help should consist in shortening the time it takes to gain it. Of the systemic effect of all the previous events, I want to note stronger firmness of intentions, more conscious setting of the main tasks for the day, a higher percentage of those tasks completed. + on top of everything, the nature of fears has become clearer, I learned to identify them, got my first experience of working with them, and it became easier to move toward my goals
The author’s personal experience, published with their consent. Results vary from person to person.